
AABJ hosts first men’s forum in honor of Father’s Day
By Tandeca Turner, AABJSC
On Tuesday, June 8, the Atlanta Association of Black Journalists hosted its first men’s forum at the Georgia Power Building located in downtown Atlanta.
The panel consisted of: finance expert and author, Clyde Anderson; Dr. David Malebranche of Grady Hospital; Wilbur T. Purvis III, pastor of Destiny World Church; Joseph Ripley, pastor of Body of Christ Church International; Atlanta Interim Police Chief George N. Turner and cardiology physician Dr. Winston Gandy.
Craig Bell, vice president of broadcast for AABJ, moderated the forum.
With this distinguished group of African-American men, the forum was informational and filled with critical knowledge.
As the panelists settled, gathering their thoughts, Bell opened the forum with the following remark: “Let’s discuss the critical issues that affect black men and our community.”
“The number one issue is the presence of a father as far as the structure of family goes, both literally and figuratively,” Ripley said.
Fatherhood is a major contribution to our children’s lives and needs to increase in order to create a critical positive adjustment in the future of African-American men, he said.
“We have to train younger generations on how to be great fathers, it’s about who can raise a baby, not who can make one,” Purvis added.
Installing good, responsible qualities in our youth helps support them in becoming outstanding fathers and community leaders in the future.
On a more personal topic, the panel was asked, “As journalists what can we do to improve our communities?”
“Do your research and look behind numbers,” Turner said. Journalists have to research stories by obtaining accurate statistics and information.
Panelists also discussed an increased need to show positive involvement in our communities.
“As journalists you need more stories directed toward positive fathers and role models rather than sports, entertainment and criminals/violence. This will give our youth a better outlook of our race and society,” Gandy said.
The topic was soon switched to: “how to raise your daughters to have a positive look at black men in their generation.”
As a father of young girls, Anderson advised, “Let them see you as an example, looking at how you react to and treat your wife will allow them to grasp an understanding of a good man.”
Children are like sponges they soak up everything whether its actions, reactions or emotions you have with situations that are presented, he continued.
“You have to have a clear definition of the roles of mother and father as parents. Children don’t do what you say, they do what you do,” Ripley added.
The doctors on the panel provided great insight on the topic of how to help black men make positive decisions when dealing with health.
“If we create an environment within our facilities that is reassuring, nurturing and family-oriented we will receive an increase in male participation as far as medical proceedings go,” Malebranche said.
This will make men more comfortable to ask questions about their health, and make more attempts to take care of their physical and mental states.
The panel discussion also included a brief video of gospel singer Kirk Franklin’s recent interview speaking about the black community.
A major issue Franklin highlighted was that, we as black people, often “ignore the younger images of ourselves due to success.”
Franklin stated that we have to stop forgetting that there are younger generations who need guidance.
As the forum concluded with open questions, it was evident that the audience was intrigued by the panelists’ facts, experience and knowledge.
The forum provided positive and intellectual information from both the panel and audience, and a delightful meal by Chef Shombe of Shombe’s Catering, filling the minds and stomachs of participants.